I rarely welcome criticism with open arms. Usually, I try to explain or defend my reasons and actions.

God’s Word has taught me a better way. Proverbs 15:31 speaks loudly to me on this issue: “Whoever heeds life-giving correction will be at home among the wise.”

Life-giving correction is the key. It’s not criticism, condemnation, or shame.

There have been many times in my life when correction has been a God-gift in disguise. Times when my BFF says, “You’re not thinking clearly, Marie.” Times when my pastor’s sermon steps on my toes. Times when God’s Word convicts me of sin or a bad attitude. At those moments, I have a choice. I can cling to my pride and a haughty attitude, or I can listen.

One of the toughest life lessons I’ve learned is that I’m not always right—and God refuses to let me think I am. He never corrects me to reject me. He corrects me because He loves me and wants me to keep the Number One goal in my life front and center: becoming more and more like Him.

Abba, Father, give me ears to hear Your voice and a heart willing to obey.

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