My BFF Never Lets Me Down

Have you ever thought of God as your Best Friend Forever? I think that’s part of how He wants us to see Him.

Think about some characteristics of your earthly best friend. Do words like encouraging, honest, trustworthy, reliable, strong, available, caring, compassionate, kind, gentle, patient… top the list? God is already all of this and more.

God is always there, always available, always loving, always forgiving, exactly what He says He is. Not only that, He never changes (James 1:17). I always know where I stand with Him. Who wouldn’t want a friend like Him?

“Can we find a friend so faithful? Who will all our sorrows share?” Joseph M. Scriven, What A Friend We Have In Jesus

These words, from a much-loved hymn, popped into my mind while writing this. We may have the most awesome friends on earth, but are they always faithful, always wanting the best for us? Do they share our sorrows, or even know what they are? My BFF knows my sorrows. He knows my every care. He knows what I need when I need it.

My Best Friend loves me so much that when He finds it necessary to discipline me, I still know and feel His love. (Proverbs 3:12)

Develop your earthly friendships. They really matter. But we can never forget that we are responsibile for continuing to mature in our relationship with the One and Only.

When everything else changes, He remains reliable!

I am joining a great group of Christian writers at 5-Minute Friday. We write for 5 minutes each Friday (sometimes longer). You can read the other writers posts and share your own here: https://fiveminutefriday.com

I am Because HE IS!

I often feel a rush of emotion when I read the words I AM. That the great I AM is aware of me, cares about what happens to me, and loves me more than life itself is almost incomprehensible. Yet, it is a reality!

God’s Word gives us several looks at the I AM concept. These reflect the truth about who we are because of who He is.

Take a look at these. Hide His Word in your heart and make it part of who you are!

I am a child of God.Romans 8:16
I am forgiven.Colossians 1:13–14
I am saved by grace through faith.Ephesians 2:8
I am justified.Romans 5:1
I am a new creation.2 Corinthians 5:17
I am led by the Spirit of God.Romans 8:14
I am kept in safety.Psalm 91:11
I am casting all my cares on Jesus.1 Peter 5:7
I am doing all things through Christ who strengthens me.Philippians 4:13
I am bringing every thought into captivity.2 Corinthians 10:5
I am being transformed by a renewed mind.Romans 12:1–2
I am the righteousness of God.2 Corinthians 5:21
I am an imitator of Jesus.Ephesians 5:1
I am filled with laughter and rejoicing.Job 8:21

And then I found this little word tucked into Romans 12:2:

APPROVE.

As we allow God to transform us through the renewing of our minds, we learn to recognize and approve His good, pleasing, and perfect will.

What if you marked these verses in your Bible and spent the next 30 days reading them, praying over them, and speaking them aloud? Let the Holy Spirit do His work.

These truths can move from words on a page to words hidden in our hearts—to become a known and usable part of who we are.

Because I AM.

And I am because HE IS.

Father, You are my Protector, Perfecter, Creator, Redeemer, and One and Only God. You have adopted me and forgiven me. You lead me, love me, and fill me with joy and delight. I am because YOU ARE. I lift these words of praise before the Throne in Jesus’ precious name.

I am joining a great group of Christian writers at 5-Minute Friday. We write for 5 minutes each Friday (sometimes longer). You can read the other writers posts and share your own here: https://fiveminutefriday.com

Here, for Such a Time as This

Who did God create you to be?

Do you know His plan for you?

Do you compare yourself to the world?

As I think about these questions, my mind goes to Esther 4:14: “…for such a time as this.”

I know God has a plan, a purpose, and a process for me. I know I am loved. I know I am chosen. I know I am forgiven. For me, all of this really matters. But then, I have to ask, “Am I immune to the world?” The answer is a resounding NO! I am tempted and distracted by the same things you are.

Let me tell you something that recently happened.

I am very active in the worship and music activities at my church. I never want any service to become the Marie Show. I want my part in worship to be all about God.

Last evening, I went to Facebook to see what my friends and family had been doing. The first thing that popped up was a collection of pictures from a past worship service. There I was, in four of the ten pictures. Not only was I prominently featured, but the outfit I was wearing looked horrible. Am I immune to the world? NO!

And here’s the thing; the evil one can use something as simple as a picture to get me thinking that I’m not what God says I am. Here’s another thing: I will not let him. I will become the woman God wants me to be. I will remember that I am God’s daughter. I will remember that I am welcome in God’s home and He is preparing a place for me for all eternity.

And most of all, I will remember that He loves me. The real me. Not the one in those pictures. Not the Marie the world thinks it sees. Not even the me I sometimes wish I were. The real me!

And guess what! He loves the real you!

So who did God create You to be? Be the real woman. Be the real man.

…for such a time as this!

I am joining a great group of Christian writers at 5-Minute Friday. We write for 5 minutes each Friday (sometimes longer). You can read the other writers posts and share your own here: https://fiveminutefriday.com

When Life Is Disrupted, God Is Not

I’ve been thinking a lot about disruption lately. Maybe because I’ve experienced it in more ways than I care to count.

Sometimes God disrupts our plans.

A door closes. A direction changes. Something we were certain about suddenly isn’t certain at all. We may call it an interruption. God may call it an invitation. What feels like a disruption to me may be His gentle—or sometimes not-so-gentle—way of moving me to a place I would not have chosen. (Proverbs 16:9)

Sometimes people disrupt our peace.

I cannot control what another person says, does, believes, or chooses, yet I can choose where to take the turmoil that’s left behind. Those actions are often disruptive, but no one has the authority to take away the peace Christ gives. (John 14:27)

Sometimes circumstances disrupt our understanding.

We pray, and nothing seems to change. We believe God’s Word, yet what we see doesn’t seem to match what we know to be true. We ask Why? and there is no answer. We look for the next step and cannot see it. Sometimes faith means standing in the middle of what we don’t understand and saying, “Lord, I don’t understand this. But I do trust You.” (Proverbs 3:5–6)


But none of them can disrupt God’s sovereignty.

Plans may change. Peace can be shaken. Understanding is nowhere to be found, but God remains God.

Maybe this is where disruption becomes something different. Maybe it’s not something I have to understand, but something I can surrender to El Roi (My God who sees). Whatever caused the disruption does not have the final word. God grows us through the changes and circumstances of our lives.

Trust Him! No matter what caused the disruption, God has the final word. (Psalm 115:3)

I am joining a great group of Christian writers at 5-Minute Friday. We write for 5 minutes each Friday (sometimes longer). You can read the other writers posts and share your own here https://fiveminutefriday.com

What I Believe, I Know

There is a difference between believing and knowing. I believe that God is who He says He is and that He can do what He says He can do. I know that He has redeemed me through the blood of His precious Son.

Believing begins with trusting what we have been told. Knowing is much deeper. As a relationship grows trust grows with it. It’s like sitting down on a chair. When I sit down in a chair, I instinctively trust that it is there. I can’t see behind me, so technically I have no way of proving that the chair is there until I sit down. But I trust it. I trust that it will hold me.

So how do I know that God is really God, that He really can do all He says, that He redeemed me? That requires a special kind of relationship and that’s the key. I have built a relationship with Him. How? I spend time with Him, in the Word. I talk with Him in prayer. I discuss Him with other believers. I listen for His voice. I watch for His imprint on my life.

Somewhere along the way, something shifts. God stops being something I know about and becomes someone I know and trust. My relationship changes from my faith being simply an idea to a trusting friendship. I may not be able to prove all I know about God, but I know Him, and that makes all the difference.

I am joining a great group of Christian writers at 5-Minute Friday. We write for 5 minutes each Friday (sometimes longer). You can read the other writers and share your own here https://fiveminutefriday.com