After “Amen”

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How often have we prayed, “Father, help me love everyone I meet today”,  only to walk away from our prayer spot and forget we ever asked?

Then someone says something that irritates us…

Then our carefully made plans fall apart…

Then someone repeats what another person has said about us…

Then we feel overlooked, misunderstood, or hurt…

Those little “thens” may be God’s answer to our prayer.

I’ll be honest. My first response isn’t always love.

Sometimes I fuss. Sometimes I fume. Sometimes I can think of a hundred ways to defend myself or get even. That’s usually when I call a trusted friend, spend time in prayer, and listen carefully for God’s voice.

Years ago, I would simmer for a while and then simply let it go. Well…I still simmer once in a while. But I don’t simply let it go anymore.

If the relationship matters, I’ve learned to go to the person and honestly say, “What happened really hurt me.”

Most of the time, we talk, we listen, and we understand each other better. Sometimes we can’t resolve everything, but I’ve learned that love isn’t passive. Love is willing to have difficult conversations with grace.

Jesus said, “Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.” (John 13:34)

Perhaps loving like Jesus isn’t found in avoiding conflict.

Perhaps it’s found in choosing kindness, truth, forgiveness, and humility in the middle of it.

So tomorrow morning, when you pray, “Father, help me love everyone today,” don’t be surprised if your first opportunity arrives before breakfast. 

When God Smiles

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In my lifelong search to understand God’s love, I’ve discovered that it’s more than His protection and provision; it’s more than His forgiveness and great sacrifice. One of the sweetest ways He expresses His love is through His delight in us.

We recently had guests for lunch, and their youngest son was completely fascinated by our black cat’s favorite sleeping place. Ebony loves to burrow under quilts, blankets, pillows—actually, under just about anything that will cover her.

We would gently lift the edge of the throw she was hiding beneath, and all little Isaiah could see were two bright green eyes peering back at him. Every time, he burst into that wonderful, delighted laugh that only a two-year-old can give.

As I listened, I could almost hear God smiling.

In that moment, I realized He was giving me another glimpse of Himself through a child’s joyful laughter.

Psalm 149:4 says,

“For the LORD takes delight in His people.”

What a beautiful thought! The God who created the universe delights in us.

That verse reminds me of another striking promise found in Zephaniah 3:17:

“The LORD your God is with you… He will take great delight in you… He will rejoice over you with singing.”

Perhaps this is one of the dimensions of God’s love we often overlook. His love doesn’t merely provide, protect, forgive, and redeem. It delights.

Psalm 147:11 adds another beautiful thought: “The LORD delights in those who fear Him, who put their hope in His unfailing love.” 

There’s a beautiful connection between God’s love and His delight in us. God doesn’t simply love us because He is love. He also enjoys us. His love is joyful. He delights in His children. Perhaps that’s why a child’s delighted laugh caught my attention. For just a moment, it gave me a tiny glimpse of the delight God takes in us, His children.

He shows us His love in countless ways—a child’s laughter, hummingbirds dancing around the feeders, the colors and patterns of creation, people who reflect His character, and quiet moments that remind us He is near.

Today, watch for the LORD’s delighted love.

 It’s everywhere.

Hide It In Your Heart

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Lately, I’ve been pulling out Scriptures I memorized years ago. They serve as reminders, calm my stress, guide my prayers, and strengthen me in countless situations.

God’s Word stored in my heart is never out of reach.

We are encouraged to commit Scripture to memory for lifelong use (Psalm 119:11; Colossians 3:16).

Zechariah 4:6 reminds me that my own strength and power are nothing compared to the Spirit of the LORD.

Luke 6:45 keeps me aware that my thoughts influence my words and actions.

Proverbs 3:5-7 helps when my trust in people is low, and I’m stressing about what is happening around me. He is the One I can trust in every situation. Verse 7 adds another important reminder: “Do not be wise in your own eyes.” Sometimes I need to remember that I’m not nearly as wise as I may try to portray. My understanding is limited, but God’s wisdom never is. The older I get, the more I realize that true wisdom is not found in what I know, but in knowing I need Him. Without His guidance, I can easily miss the path He wants me to take.

Jeremiah 29:11-12 is another favorite. Many people, including me, love the promise found in verse 11. Yet verse 12 is equally powerful: when I come to Him and pray, HE WILL HEAR ME. What a promise! That reminder becomes especially meaningful when I feel that others are not listening.

The importance of memorizing Scripture appears early in the history of God’s people. Deuteronomy 6:6-9 instructs believers to keep God’s Word in their hearts, close to their bodies, part of their conversations, and visible in their homes. The message is clear: God’s Word should be woven into every moment of everyday life.

There is great comfort in having God’s Word so close that all I need to do is think about it. Long after my Bible is closed, His truth remains with me, ready to guide, encourage, correct, and remind me that I am never alone.

The Vibe May Change…

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A couple of days ago, I spent hours trying to figure out why the “Follow Me” button had disappeared from my blog. With the help of my AI assistant, I checked settings and lists, tried everything I could think of, and followed every suggestion. I knew the answer had to be somewhere in the program.

I could see the follow box. I could see the list of followers. Everything seemed to be there, yet the button refused to appear on my posts.

Then I discovered a list of buttons that had somehow been switched off. All I had to do was turn one setting back on, and voilà—my button was restored.

That little adventure made me think about our relationship with God.

Sometimes we experience a sense of goneness. We pray, worship, and read Scripture, yet God feels distant. We wonder, I’m here. Where is He? We can’t feel the vibe of His presence, so we begin to assume something has gone wrong.

But feelings are not facts.

God is faithful and always keeps His word. David wrote in Psalm 139:7-10, “Where can I flee from Your presence?” The answer is nowhere. Joshua reminds us in Joshua 1:9 that “the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” And Jesus promised in Matthew 28:20, “I am with you always, even to the end of the age.”

The bottom line is this: God hasn’t gone anywhere.

When His presence seems hidden, the problem isn’t that He has disappeared. More often, we’ve become distracted, discouraged, or focused on the wrong things. The connection is still there because He is still there.

In Isaiah 41:8-10, God makes this promise:

“You are my servant,
I have chosen you and not cast you off;
fear not, for I am with you;
be not dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you, I will help you,
I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”

The vibe may change.

God never does.

This post is part of the weekly Five Minute Friday link-up

A Sign of Readiness

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Mother Teresa once said, “To keep a lamp burning, we have to keep putting oil in it.” The same applies to our spiritual lives. If we stop learning, growing, and drawing near to God, our lamps begin to dim. We may still look fine on the outside, but inside, we become like an empty lamp waiting to be filled.

Scripture often uses lamps as a picture of our relationship with God. Proverbs 31:18 says of the virtuous woman, “Her lamp does not go out at night.” In ancient times, a lamp burning after dark signaled a welcoming home for weary travelers. The lamp was more than a source of light; it was a sign of readiness. The woman described in Proverbs was prepared to serve, to care, and to offer hospitality when needed.

Psalm 18:28 reminds us that we are not responsible for producing the light ourselves. David writes, “For You light my lamp; the Lord my God illumines my darkness.” What a comforting truth! God is the One who lights the lamp and sustains its flame. As we walk with Him and mature in our faith, His light shines more brightly through us. Ancient lamps could be fitted with additional wicks to increase their brightness. In much the same way, God continues His work in us, expanding our capacity to reflect His light to the world.

Jesus used this same imagery in the Parable of the Ten Virgins (Matthew 25:1-13). Five were prepared with extra oil, and five were not. When the bridegroom arrived, the prepared virgins entered the wedding feast while the others were left outside. The lesson is clear: followers of Christ are to live in a state of readiness. We cannot borrow someone else’s faith or wait until the last moment to seek the Lord. We remain ready by staying close to Him, filling our minds with His Word, and allowing His Spirit to work within us.

One day, all who belong to Christ will be welcomed into the Wedding Supper of the Lamb. Until then, God faithfully does His part. He lights the lamp, supplies the oil, and tends the flame. Our part is not to manufacture the light but to remain close to Him. We do that by filling our minds with His Word, obeying what He teaches us, and keeping our hearts ready for His return. As we walk with Him day by day, His light shines more brightly through us, becoming a sign of readiness to a watching world.

Heavenly Father, how humbled I am when I realize that You are the One who fills the lamp. Lord, fill mine to overflowing with love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Let my lamp continue burning brightly until I am finally admitted to the Wedding Supper of the Lamb. In Jesus’ perfect Name, make it so. Amen.

I’m sharing this article at 5-Minute Friday. We’re a group of bloggers who wait each Friday morning for a new word to use in a post. Jump on over and enjoy the posts with me. I hope you’ll be blessed in the process. Marie